The contenders

This is a little background on the few men that almost ended the dry spell,
it could give further insight about my um... choices. I call them:

THE CONTENDERS

The working man
Codename: The big Kahuna
Age: 26 (when we met)
About him: Island boy, "player", drug dealer, had a great gig in down town phoenix, in school for engeneeiring degree, Fine!!
About us: hung out often, made out once
What happened: lost contact, he moved
The twist: his girlfriend. Was also being persued by one of my roommates from "The Zone"

The Super
Codename: Manny
Age: 35 (when we met)
Abot him: worked for the complex I lived in, three kids(yikes!) Fine!!!
About us: hung out once, made out once
What happened: he moved to Boston
The twist: Got PO'ed cuz I wanted to at least learn his last name before we slept together, got embarassed be cause he exposed himself while we were having beer. I told him I liked talking to him, he told me he was tired of talking, and thats when he introduced Manny Jr.(not really a bad thing per se, I was getting there, but the attitude ruined it. he even appologized. I didn't reprimand him, just let hinm know that I still wanted to get to know him.)

Desk jockey jr
Codename: Dimples
Age: 23 (when we met)
About him: from Alaska, worked in my office, very cute
What happened: got over zealous at the chance to hang out with him, plan backfired
The twist: Was planning to go back to Alaska

Desk Jockey
Codename: Buddah
Age: 28 (when we met)
About him: adventuous, very tribal, travelin' man
About us: hung out twice
What Happened: went MIA after we exchaned #s
The twist: a meddeling co worker who deleted his # from my phone (we hand the same phone, so she knew the ends and outs)

The Immaculant one
Codename: Dr No
Age: 31 (when we met)
About him: POTHEAD! (Smoked WAY to much dope. He could name over twenty types of cannabis), shy, worked in my office, liked my type of music
About us: hung out once, went out on a date once
What happened: Told me he was too busy and HE was celibate after I asked him out
The twist: I think he got sketched out about a very innocent poem I left him (it was about holding hands)
Bonus: Made him cry (unintentionaly) when he kept asking me out but standing me up.
He wanted to hang out one night, but I told him I had plans. Went to see a local band, and he was there, crying.(eww)

The holy roller
Codename: Iceman
Age: 25 ( when I saw him last)
About him: ABsolutely one of the most beautiful men I have ever met (inside and out)
rollerbladed EVERYWHERE! (and had the thighs to prove it!) Pothead
About us: used to work to gether , hung out twice
What I like about him: very unique personality, natural, kept me laughing whenever I saw him, had the COOLEST tats you ever saw!
What happened: lost contact
The twist: ran into him 2 years after he quite working at the office, But yet,he could give me a great hug
Bonus: Would make *Manny jealous when he would stop by my place (sweaty, from the rollerblading, and no shirt on... YUM!) and he would see Manny outside and asked if he buy any chance knew when I would be back.

Gods gift to women
Codename: The Rock (his idol)
Age: 22 (when we met)
About him: atypical (he's black and likes metal) great since of humor, likes arm candy (used to hang out at strip clubs, till he got ripped off buy a dancer, and just paln mistreated buy another one) he thinks like me
About us: We've known each other for 6 years, lived together at my sister's place
we are alot alike, had similar experiences
What happened: he bailed when I wanted to hang out as friends, so I bailed on our "first date"
The twist: his on again off again girlfreind who's 17

Band Boy
Codename: Songbird
Age: 28 (when we met)
About him: musician, singer/songwritter, humble, computer geek, very sexy
Vegan!
What happened: Introduced his new girlfriend seconds before I was going to ask him out.
The twist: Rivals the next contender for the #1 spot!

THE ONE that wont go away
Codename: Sparky
Age: 28 (when we met)
About him: Musician, composer, VERY sexy, cerebral, kinda shy, Vegitarian! (rule)
works at the office I used to work for
About us: We used to see each other often, we can talk for hours about everything
Why I fell in love: his ambition, his friendship lifted me out of a bad patch of days. Somethng inside him reminds me of something inside me
What happened: still pending
The twist: recently divorced, and dating some one, 2/3rds of the band *Songbird sings for!

The one. Yup, that's it. The man I have been in love with for the past three years! The one that basicaly I don't want to do with out, but He's not mine, he's with some one eles. The one I can't seem to forget about no matter how hard I try. So far no one has compared, but I'm still hopefull. You can't just want one person for the rest of your life... no matter what right? I'll get over him right?